Monday 16 May 2011

Wedding Check List

Ehem,ehem..den maleh bona hari ni memandangkan opis sunyi sume nak g raya sok.haha..maka ilham datang lagi.kali ini untuk sicantik manis yg blom kawen k.akak kasik tips untuk membikin wedding list anda.list ini adalah berdasarkan pengalaman sebenar..cewah mcm cite seram lak.hehe..may it will be a good guidance since mase saya kawen dlu gler skit checklist yg leh apply untk msian.omputihnyer bebagai..then list ini juga dedicatedkan kepada dara2 yg confirm akan menumpukan sepenuh perhatian dalam planning wedding mereka (takyah pki wedding planner dik noon membazir jek..akak ni plan dr putrajaya-ipoh,jadik jek..kan sissy).akak cr quot stp item sndr ok.nasib xcr smpi 3 quot.ala da terbiasa koje gomen hidop pon nak gomen.lalala...enjoy!

MAJLIS KHATAM

  • Kusyen Khatam
  • Back-drop
  • Rehal
  • Al-Quran
  • Baju Khatam
  • Make-up
  • Marhaban (10pax)
  • Khemah (2)
  • Jamuan (100pax)
  • Saguhati marhaban (20 pax) (Al-Quran,Beg Kertas,Sejadah Kecil/Tasbih)
  • Set Bunga Pahar
  • PA sistem (mini jek nak kasik sore ngaji tu lebih merdu..hehe)
MAJLIS AKAD NIKAH

*Dokumentasi
-part ni harus diberi penempuan penuh krn anda perlu betapa dgn staf pejabat agama daerah krn pelbagai kemusykilan akan timbul.maka ringan2 kan mulot.if da prepare bagai nak rak tgk2 borang xlengkap simpan sj cita2 itu.hehe..kene prepare form ni sume dlm 3bln sebelum tarikh nikah (nmpk mcm lama tapi i keja tok kadi je sebulan..yg lain2??hurm)
  • Borang kahwin
  • Borang HIV (kene wat test kat klinik kjaan k adik2)
  • Borang kebenaran kahwin
  • Borang wali
  • Borang saksi(2 pax)
Item-item lain
  • Kusyen Nikah
  • Back-drop
  • Baju Nikah (P/L)
  • Make-up
  • Cincin (P/L)
  • Tok Kadi
  • Saksi
  • Mas Kahwin
  • Khemah (2)
  • Jamuan (100)
  • Hiasan Bilik Tidur
  • Hiasan Hantaran (9/7) (ini ikut u nak berbalas brp la ek)
  • Barang Hantaran (9/7) (ini ikut u nak berbalas brp la ek)
  • Duit Hantaran (jgn lupe bwk mlm nikah k)


MAJLIS PERSANDINGAN

  • Dewan (adik2 haruslah ditempah setahun sblm pd sape yg berangan nak kawen kat dewan k,kalo xmimpi jela)
  • Pelamin
  • Baju Sanding (P/L)
  • Slaid Making
  • Kad
  • Make-up
  • Jamuan (1500)
  • Kerusi
  • Hiasan Meja/Kerusi
  • Kompang
  • P.A system/DJ
  • Gift
  • Lagu weds
  • Flower gurl
  • Bunga Korsaj
  • Jurugambar
FOC by Butik
  • Bunga Tangan
  • Pintu Gerbang
  • Red Carpet
  • Roman Pillar (10)
  • Bunga R.P (10)
  • Perenjis
  • Bunga Pahar
  • Cheor
  • Pintu Gerbang
MAJLIS POTONG KEK
  • harus ada kekla (ble mtk foc dr caterer)
  • baju potong kek (kalau majlis buat masa malam bukak hadiah)
 LAIN-LAIN
  • Baju Famili
  • Honeymoon
*credit to the angels (kengkawan sissy yg jadi bakul gurl i ritu..tetiba tingat lak.mungkin u olss leh jadi angels tuk aqiqah baby nanti..wah berangan.mereka slalu ada tiba2..tats what angels do.hehe)

Sunday 15 May 2011

Bila Saya Patut Kawen

Pada yang suda miang-miang keladi akan cakap bila-bila pon bole..tapi hakikatnya memang ada waktunya Bila Saya Patut Kawen. Kaedahnya suda pasti bergantung pada Bila Wang Anda Cukup..xpercaya??percayalah kerana ianya benar!tapi org kata duit takan pernah ckp jadi xkawen2 la..so tats when u need to read tis out loud..YOU NEED TO HAVE A PLAN.if you dont hv plan,so u're plan to fail..klise but it's reality.lucky me when my plan starts with my mum plan+God will.so with tat,this is how the plan work (tis plan only apply to who are in/plan to be in the govenmnt sector..ahaks):
1. the lucky age is 25th.why?
-u will finished ur degree at the age of 24.for me after graduated i only waited for 6month to be in a permanent post (alhamdulilah)
2. then wait until you hv work for 3 years.why?
-after 3years as a G off. u layak untuk keluarkan u punyer KWSP.huhu...tats when all the junior off. beraya okay!(but tis will be a raya when the money were collected since u pass ur SPM n start working ok guys..sape yg maleh sndr mau ingat.krn when u start working at the very young age,majikan akan start juga mencarum KWSP untk u..so duit SPM terkumpul+keje kjaan 3thn=lalala..atleast 10k..huhu)
-so btween tat 3years time mesti u ada kumpul duit gaji sndr kan.jadi KWSP+duit gaji (500/bulan x 3thn)
u da ada atleast 30k!more than enough..babe.u even (if u r lelaki kasik hantaran kt pmpuan 10k tau!like me..thanks bb) but tis 30k xtermasuk mkn k..dear.u blela pau fund PA&MA.lalala...mummy luv u!muahkss...pastikan couple u guna kaedah yg sama k

so guys tis plan really a plan if ur a good planner.seyes k..tu bujet i kawen dlu k.nowadays harusla meningkat lagi.jd pandai2la n selamat beramal.but for me.plan no.2 didnt applied bcoz of my mum plan no.3:

3. start saving using ASB LOAN.why?
-my mum who is such a brilliant mum (thanks God) hv buy me tis loan at the age of 19th (br daftar uni ms tu).at tat time xtau pun apa guna until nak kawenla.the total loan amount 75,000 where the monthly commintment is 500.during belajar my mum paid it.so calculate ur self.every end of year i got at least 5k as a bonus by taking the loan.so at the end of the day (nak kawen umo 25 kan) u get the same amount/more (coz ade bocor2 wer u terguna duit tu during blaja like me bli laptop n downpayment kete..how i wish i dunt used it at tat time..urggh) as u save 500/month ur salary (maknanya plan ini terpakai kalo u da sedar ms umur 19la..).tis loan ble diambil dimana bank.skang interest dia lg rendah k and i still enjoying tis bonus till now (hrpkan gomen tadela nok) each year.many people envy me ok!yela kalo hrpkan u all simpan sndr lalu ke nak pejam mata kasi 500 hlg je dr akaun.blom dpt gaji pon da pikir2 nak wt pe ngn duit tu usah kata nak simpan (ni ayat pesanan penaja my mummy..hehe)

all tis plan r adjustable to your age (bkn senang nak kawen k!).im just guiding on how to build the plan.i terpikir ni pon sbb memikirkan betapa sy xtau plan no.2 tu..masuk gomen mude2 la katakan,if not mesti riang ria lae majlis kawen i tau..ble kuar duit manyak nyah walau br keje.tapi apapun tetap bersyukur dengan apa yg da jd kalo x,xsiapla junior i kini...hehe.mommy to be at the age 27th,if not umo 29th kot br jd.alhamdulilah..syukur yek!

makanya xsusah nk hidop pon dlm dunia gomen ni krn hakikatnya individu itu sndr.seriusly talking bout saving many of my fwens dont hv saving even anak da sorg.zaman skang hrpkan duit gaji ble wt gaduh kot.savingla menyelamatkan segalanya.really appreciate it..mum!kecuali u all ade bisnes kencang.for me since i xguna duit KWSP tuk kawen, i plan to buy a house.and there's goes another plan....